Episode 11

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5th Sep 2025

11: Adopt or Shop?

In this episode of Tales and Tones, host Mariska Nall explores the important decision of whether to adopt or shop for a dog. She emphasizes the value of adoption, sharing personal stories and statistics about the current state of dog shelters. The conversation delves into the challenges of adopting dogs, including potential trauma and the thorough application process. Mariska also discusses the pros and cons of purchasing from reputable breeders versus puppy mills, highlighting the ethical considerations involved. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to approach dog ownership with intention and commitment, regardless of their choice.

Takeaways:

  • Adoption is a personal journey and should be approached with empathy.
  • Dogs are a long-term commitment, not a temporary decision.
  • Shelters often face overcrowding, leading to difficult choices for animals.
  • Adopting a dog can save a life and provide a second chance.
  • Adoption fees can vary, and sometimes adopting can be more cost-effective.
  • Some adopted dogs may come with trauma and require patience.
  • Reputable breeders prioritize health and ethics over profit.
  • Puppy mills often operate under cruel conditions, treating dogs poorly.
  • Choosing the right dog involves matching energy levels and lifestyle needs.
  • Regardless of the choice, responsible pet ownership is crucial.


Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

How dogs are assisting with scientific research with Kayla Fratt

How to Make Your Pet Adoption Application Stand Out

Rolls and Underbites

The Kevin and Kayla Show

Kevin's Video (the two classic Frenchie moods)

Kevin's Video (how much can happen in just a blink)

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Introduction to Dog Adoption vs. Shopping

[02:55]- The Case for Adoption

[05:42]- Challenges of Adoption

[08:46]- Understanding Dog Shopping

[11:33]- The Dark Side of Breeding

[14:47]- Finding the Right Dog for You

[16:40]- Where Tails meet hearts - Rolls and Underbites.

[18:40]- Paw-lebrity of the Week - The Kevin and Kayla Show

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Tails and Tones
Helpful tips, heartwarming tails, and honest reviews for the busy pet parent.
Helpful tips, heart-warming tails, and honest reviews for the busy dog parent.



Being a dog mom is the best—but let’s be real, it can also be confusing, messy, and a little lonely sometimes. That’s why Tails & Tones exists.



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Mariska Nell

Mariska Nell is a podcast host, pet advocate, sustainability expert, and proud dog mom to her rescue French Bulldog, Piper—also known as the real boss of the house. With a background in design and environmental science, and a Master’s in Sustainable Design focused on the pet industry, Mariska brings heart, humor, and purpose to everything she creates.

She’s the founder and host of Tails and Tones, a soulful podcast for intentional pet parents, where she shares insights, stories, and reviews that help make pet care a little easier and a lot more joyful. She also hosts Mama Earth Talk, where she dives into sustainability topics with changemakers from around the world.

Whether she’s recording episodes, consulting on pet-focused sustainability projects, or out on a walk with Piper, Mariska is passionate about creating a better world—for pets, their people, and the planet.